Jennifer Aniston's boyfriend Jim Curtis has revealed the secret to starting a successful relationship

At the start of the clip, Jennifer - who went public with her relationship with him on November 2 - asks: "Hey, Jim. How do I stop falling in love with the idea of someone?"

Smiling as he explains manifestation before going into detail about why remaining in the present is important, Jim replied: "I like this question mostly because the subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between reality and fantasy.

"So the more you that fantasise about the future that does not currently exist, the more you make it real. This is what manifestation is.

"However, in a relationship, if you're fantasising about what marriage with kids and a house in the country looks like without paying attention to what's happening in this present moment, then you're falling in love with something that doesn't exist, and you're probably putting too much attachment on that person.

"So, how do you stop - is looking at exactly what's happening in the here and now. Stay present and don't move too far into the future until it happens."

Romance rumours between Jennifer, 56, and Jim sparked when the pair vacationed together in Mallorca, Spain, during the Fourth of July weekend.

According to MailOnline, The Morning Show actress excitedly introduced Jim - who regularly posts inspirational quotes and "manifestations" to help people find love - to her Horrible Bosses co-star, Jason Bateman, and his wife, former actress Amanda Anka, both 56.

The foursome then enjoyed a yacht trip together.

Following the trip, Jim wrote in his newsletter - without referencing Jennifer - that it was a great experience, and that when he was "sick, sad, stuck and in pain", Jim did not think he "would have the abundance, joy and love" that he "now experiences on a daily basis".

In June, Jim and the Friends star were spotted at the five-star Alila Ventana Big Sur hotel in Northern California.

Around this time, Jennifer - who was previously in a relationship with 61-year-old actor Brad Pitt from 2000 until 2005, as well as 54-year-old actor Justin Theroux from 2015 until 2018 - liked Jim's post that read: "Repeat these affirmations to heal and recover from a divorce, breakup or difficult romance and begin to call in the new empowered, healthy and divine love."

But it was earlier in November that Jennifer and Jim went Instagram official with their relationship on his birthday - November 2.

Captioning a cute black-and-white photo of the couple sharing a sweet embrace, Jennifer wrote: "Happy birthday, my love. Cherished."