Jonathan Bailey wants to have a child
The 'Wicked' actor is gay and while he declined to reveal if he is currently dating, he has been exploring his options about raising a family of his own, but doesn't think now is the right time as he is so busy with his career
16 December 2024
Asked if he wants children, he told Britain's Vogue magazine: "Yes, it's such a privilege for a man. But I can't bring children into my lifestyle now.
"I want to make sure I'm going to be present.
"I'm reading books on adoption. I might co-parent with a woman, but I'm thinking it will be with a man."
The 36-year-old star came out to his close friends and family in his early 20s but admitted his sexuality had been a gradual realisation and he even dated a woman for two years in his 20s.
He said: "It's interesting with the binary, where you're perceived to be either this or that. That's how I saw it at the time, but there are so many nuances to it.
"My experience of that relationship was not that I was in the shadows. She remains one of my best friends.
"I think other people understood my sexuality before I was even aware of it."
But the 'Bridgerton' star recalled being in primary school and enjoying a sleepover with friends.
He asked: "Guys, guys, who else thinks they're gay? Do you? I do. I do."
He added: "It was a conversation I really, really wanted to have, to see if everyone else was on the same page. But everyone went quiet...
"[At school] I was having trouble with my work and [a teacher] said, 'Well, if you weren't so busy being a fairy you'd understand.' "
Jonathan has always been "confident" in public displays of affection but he admitted there have been occasions when he's been "heckled" as a result.
He said: "I've always been a confident hand-holder in relationships.
"I had a boyfriend who wasn't experienced at holding hands in public. We got heckled in London. But that kind of behaviour is now outweighed by the smiles you get."
Meanwhile, after becoming a household name thanks to 'Bridgerton', Jonathan admitted he initially "struggled" with the fame it brought.
He said: "It felt quite hard-hitting after 'Bridgerton' came out. I really struggled initially; I was overwhelmed by it. But the people in your life have to adapt too.
"That's the hardest thing: you see them struggling before you see it in yourself, someone pushing past your dear mum and dad to get a picture. I'm really good now at saying no to photos."
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