News | Entertainment
14 Jan 2026 14:29
NZCity News
NZCity CalculatorReturn to NZCity

  • Start Page
  • Personalise
  • Sport
  • Weather
  • Finance
  • Shopping
  • Jobs
  • Horoscopes
  • Lotto Results
  • Photo Gallery
  • Site Gallery
  • TVNow
  • Dating
  • SearchNZ
  • NZSearch
  • Crime.co.nz
  • RugbyLeague
  • Make Home
  • About NZCity
  • Contact NZCity
  • Your Privacy
  • Advertising
  • Login
  • Join for Free

  •   Home > News > Entertainment

    Amy Poehler says it is "painful" when parents hit the stage where they question if they are "needed" in their children's lives

    The 52-year-old 'Parks and Recreation' actress is raising two teen boys - Archie, 15, and 13-year-old Abel - who she has with her actor ex-husband Will Arnett, 54, and has now opened up about her views on the transition mothers and fathers go through as their kids grow


    She told People: "That's a painful process as an adult, as a parent. I relate just to that feeling of, 'In what way am I needed?'"

    But despite the transition being "difficult", Amy added about ultimately finding it exciting and inspiring: "I actually love that period. I find it really satisfying and exciting and fulfilling and difficult and challenging."

    Amy has just finished her voice role work as the emotion Joy on the 'Inside Out 2' animated movie, which sees its 13-year-old main character Riley battle a jumble of inner emotions voiced by other stars - including sadness - as she navigates puberty and high school.

    Amy recently opened up about parenting on Dax Shepard's 'Armchair Expert' podcast, saying it isn't always easy giving advice to her kids.

    She said: "Sometimes I see them disconnect when I'm talking."

    The actress added the only way her children openly express their issues with her is by her stopping herself from telling tales from her own childhood to keep them on track and identify with their issues.

    She said: "So I've got teens now and I am learning that the way to keep them talking is to not do the second part - to do the part of, 'That happened to me too'.

    "As well intentioned and as sensitive and thought out and connected as the second part is I think it gets kids feeling, like, expectation - they wanna do it for you.

    "I just find for me, when I start to (give advice), it's where I lose them."

    © 2026 Bang Showbiz, NZCity

     Other Entertainment News
     14 Jan: Will Arnett thinks he will lose a Golden Globe to his ex-wife Amy Poehler
     14 Jan: Iman has honoured her late husband David Bowie with a new tattoo
     14 Jan: Isaac Mizrahi dec lares Gwyneth Paltrow "has the best a** in show business"
     14 Jan: Gwyneth Paltrow's son "wanted to die" after watching her raunchy sex scenes with Timothee Chalamet in Marty Supreme
     14 Jan: The Thing star T.K. Carter has died at the age of 69
     14 Jan: Chad Michael Murray knew he "liked girls" after seeing Jamie Lee Curtis in Trading Places
     14 Jan: Danielle Brooks' daughter accidentally lost and swallowed a tooth
     Top Stories

    RUGBY RUGBY
    Former All Blacks midfielder Charlie Ngatai is embracing the challenges of life after a 15-year career in professional rugby More...


    BUSINESS BUSINESS
    The chances of more OCR cuts seem to be fading More...



     Today's News

    Entertainment:
    Will Arnett thinks he will lose a Golden Globe to his ex-wife Amy Poehler 14:23

    Law and Order:
    A man's dead and a woman and two young men are in hospital - after a shooting overnight at Waitarere Beach, near Levin 14:17

    National:
    This is the playbook the Iranian regime uses to crack down on protests – but will it work this time? 14:17

    Law and Order:
    A man's been charged - accused of pushing a store owner at Whananaki - in coastal Northland 14:07

    Entertainment:
    Iman has honoured her late husband David Bowie with a new tattoo 13:53

    Tennis:
    American top seed Ben Shelton has advanced into the quarter-finals at the ASB tennis Classic in Auckland 13:47

    Health & Safety:
    The Public Service Association's laid a complaint with the IPCA - claiming police didn't respond to mental health workers claiming they'd been assaulted 13:47

    Politics:
    More than 500 new doctors have joined the workforce this year - most starting new roles this week 13:27

    Entertainment:
    Isaac Mizrahi dec lares Gwyneth Paltrow "has the best a** in show business" 13:23

    Motoring:
    Police are asking people for dashcam or CCTV footage - after a fiery crash north of Rotorua in which a young driver died, and two passengers were seriously injured 13:17


     News Search






    Power Search


    © 2026 New Zealand City Ltd